You found the opponent's slip of the tongue
and the mistake of the behavior
You are magnifying your opponent's small fault
and thinking it's a big one
And you're leading the way
in spreading that fact around
and disparaging him.
There are some aspects
that you have been given
the thinking and judgment
but there are some big aspects
you have built yourself
Because you hate him
Almost first from the moment you met
Of course I don't think
there was not your any effort at all
to maintain a good relationship
I don't want to ignore, denigrate or distort
your normal side
But if i first raise the point
you have to admit that
you've definitely abused your opponent
It's more than just pointing out
and criticizing your opponent's fault
that you have done something clearly wrong
You did like that
because he don’t say or do what you want or demand
I respect that you saw what was wrong with him
and attempt to take legal steps
such as prosecution and complaint
The process is legitimate
and you can raise a question about rationality
but you can't argue with each other at its source
Now i’m considering that you may be mistaken
as if you were the apostles of justice
You may be under the illusion
that you can swing that level of violence
to correct the opponent's mistakes
After all your conscience
and your intellect will answer you
It will give you the power
to objectify and see yourself and determine
if you are ashamed of what you said or did
Honestly the opponent didn't like you
From the start either
But I don't think he's done you any harm
or harm to the people around you as much
to get that treatment from you
This conclusion has not been made in a flash
The conclusion came after hundreds of mental
Agony I've been worrying
What's right? What was the best thing to do?
I have spent years agonizing about the happening
without a 1% falsehood
Furthermore why did such a meeting take place
and why did they break up?
I have put those worries to my root desperately
Of course I can't deny that
his protests were not 100 percent true
And he made a false assertion
about your key question
Through this process i also found many deficiencies
and mistakes of each being
the ability to distinguish between his mistake
and the mistakes of others around them
I'd like to leave this question with you for the last time
For example someone treads on your foot
and walks on the street
So you feel so much pain
You shout at him Why are you stepping on my foot?
But he won't listen to you carefully
and just tries to ignore you
Then you ask him to apologize
That is a very reasonable claim
But he doesn't accept your request
Then you run at him in anger
and start punching and kicking
Are you justified in your behavior?
Is such violent behavior justified
in not complying with your demand for apology?
I want you to think more deeply about this Question
Obviously it will help you live in society in the future
PS It's all the more wrong for you to assault someone
when you hear offensive words
Instead of nitpicking and asking
Why are you talking like that?
I have of course made a similar mistake
I think of an anecdote about 32 years ago
When I was a kindergarten student
I was remembered for throwing two stones
are on the floor in a loud voice
because my friend was using bad words and swearing
which makes me feel deeply ashamed
whenever I think about it
It's a relieve that the stone I threw at the time didn't hit him
If he had been hit by his face or other vital parts
he might have died or had major aftereffects
I was once scolded by adults
so I could never repeat it
But since then other errors have occurred continuously
You found the opponent's slip of the tongue
and the mistake of the behavior
You are magnifying your opponent's small fault
and thinking it's a big one
And you're leading the way
in spreading that fact around
and disparaging him.
There are some aspects
that you have been given
the thinking and judgment
but there are some big aspects
you have built yourself
Because you hate him
Almost first from the moment you met
Of course I don't think
there was not your any effort at all
to maintain a good relationship
I don't want to ignore, denigrate or distort
your normal side
But if i first raise the point
you have to admit that
you've definitely abused your opponent
It's more than just pointing out
and criticizing your opponent's fault
that you have done something clearly wrong
You did like that
because he don’t say or do what you want or demand
I respect that you saw what was wrong with him
and attempt to take legal steps
such as prosecution and complaint
The process is legitimate
and you can raise a question about rationality
but you can't argue with each other at its source
Now i’m considering that you may be mistaken
as if you were the apostles of justice
You may be under the illusion
that you can swing that level of violence
to correct the opponent's mistakes
After all your conscience
and your intellect will answer you
It will give you the power
to objectify and see yourself and determine
if you are ashamed of what you said or did
Honestly the opponent didn't like you
From the start either
But I don't think he's done you any harm
or harm to the people around you as much
to get that treatment from you
This conclusion has not been made in a flash
The conclusion came after hundreds of mental
Agony I've been worrying
What's right? What was the best thing to do?
I have spent years agonizing about the happening
without a 1% falsehood
Furthermore why did such a meeting take place
and why did they break up?
I have put those worries to my root desperately
Of course I can't deny that
his protests were not 100 percent true
And he made a false assertion
about your key question
Through this process i also found many deficiencies
and mistakes of each being
the ability to distinguish between his mistake
and the mistakes of others around them
I'd like to leave this question with you for the last time
For example someone treads on your foot
and walks on the street
So you feel so much pain
You shout at him Why are you stepping on my foot?
But he won't listen to you carefully
and just tries to ignore you
Then you ask him to apologize
That is a very reasonable claim
But he doesn't accept your request
Then you run at him in anger
and start punching and kicking
Are you justified in your behavior?
Is such violent behavior justified
in not complying with your demand for apology?
I want you to think more deeply about this Question
Obviously it will help you live in society in the future
PS It's all the more wrong for you to assault someone
when you hear offensive words
Instead of nitpicking and asking
Why are you talking like that?
I have of course made a similar mistake
I think of an anecdote about 32 years ago
When I was a kindergarten student
I was remembered for throwing two stones
are on the floor in a loud voice
because my friend was using bad words and swearing
which makes me feel deeply ashamed
whenever I think about it
It's a relieve that the stone I threw at the time didn't hit him
If he had been hit by his face or other vital parts
he might have died or had major aftereffects
I was once scolded by adults
so I could never repeat it
But since then other errors have occurred continuously
You found the opponent's slip of the tongue
and the mistake of the behavior
You are magnifying your opponent's small fault
and thinking it's a big one
And you're leading the way
in spreading that fact around
and disparaging him.
There are some aspects
that you have been given
the thinking and judgment
but there are some big aspects
you have built yourself
Because you hate him
Almost first from the moment you met
Of course I don't think
there was not your any effort at all
to maintain a good relationship
I don't want to ignore, denigrate or distort
your normal side
But if i first raise the point
you have to admit that
you've definitely abused your opponent
It's more than just pointing out
and criticizing your opponent's fault
that you have done something clearly wrong
You did like that
because he don’t say or do what you want or demand
I respect that you saw what was wrong with him
and attempt to take legal steps
such as prosecution and complaint
The process is legitimate
and you can raise a question about rationality
but you can't argue with each other at its source
Now i’m considering that you may be mistaken
as if you were the apostles of justice
You may be under the illusion
that you can swing that level of violence
to correct the opponent's mistakes
After all your conscience
and your intellect will answer you
It will give you the power
to objectify and see yourself and determine
if you are ashamed of what you said or did
Honestly the opponent didn't like you
From the start either
But I don't think he's done you any harm
or harm to the people around you as much
to get that treatment from you
This conclusion has not been made in a flash
The conclusion came after hundreds of mental
Agony I've been worrying
What's right? What was the best thing to do?
I have spent years agonizing about the happening
without a 1% falsehood
Furthermore why did such a meeting take place
and why did they break up?
I have put those worries to my root desperately
Of course I can't deny that
his protests were not 100 percent true
And he made a false assertion
about your key question
Through this process i also found many deficiencies
and mistakes of each being
the ability to distinguish between his mistake
and the mistakes of others around them
I'd like to leave this question with you for the last time
For example someone treads on your foot
and walks on the street
So you feel so much pain
You shout at him Why are you stepping on my foot?
But he won't listen to you carefully
and just tries to ignore you
Then you ask him to apologize
That is a very reasonable claim
But he doesn't accept your request
Then you run at him in anger
and start punching and kicking
Are you justified in your behavior?
Is such violent behavior justified
in not complying with your demand for apology?
I want you to think more deeply about this Question
Obviously it will help you live in society in the future
PS It's all the more wrong for you to assault someone
when you hear offensive words
Instead of nitpicking and asking
Why are you talking like that?
I have of course made a similar mistake
I think of an anecdote about 32 years ago
When I was a kindergarten student
I was remembered for throwing two stones
are on the floor in a loud voice
because my friend was using bad words and swearing
which makes me feel deeply ashamed
whenever I think about it
It's a relieve that the stone I threw at the time didn't hit him
If he had been hit by his face or other vital parts
he might have died or had major aftereffects
I was once scolded by adults
so I could never repeat it
But since then other errors have occurred continuously