It's a beautiful thing
to help people in absolute poverty
but Don't lend to anyone
who borrows money
to pay for his own entertainment expenses
Look to see if your opponent
is a man of basic faith
Look to see if he can thank you for the help
he received from you and try to repay you
There are swindlers who tries to borrow money
thinking not to pay back
on the other hand there is a case
when it is a time to pay back the money
they look for a reason
why they won’t pay back the money
They recall the opponent’s mistake
and justify the act of not paying back the money
Thinking that they had a loss
At a time in the situation
not knowing them much
and not having long-term relationship
if you make an easy money transaction
You will regret it
Of course even if it's a relationship
You’ve never known
it's a beautiful act to help people
who ask for help
but like the previous case
giving money to a swindler
or an extravagant person is a act pouring
in the bottomless Jar
No like that case
even though you don’t know anything
about the person to help someone
who asks for financial help
in a very urgent situation
or for survival that act is commendable
If you do so in good faith
and do not intend to return
you should receive applause more
Good deeds bring good luck
That's not the luck what the sky gives you
but the luck to live a happier life
because of the good habits it has built up
The money is worth to a close friend
But when it isn't you get the feeling regret
Men is the being who do constant rationalization
and justification for their past choices
The feeling of regret this is because
the act is beyond justification
Let me think of the reason
why I didn't press them then
Then I lent them the money and
why didn't I press them to return the money
It is because I hurt my pride
It was because it hurt my pride
to lend them freely at that time
But now press them to return the money
Of course it wasn't a lot of money
so I was able to give up a bit
PS As I said before I want to say this to people
who borrowed my money and didn't pay it back
Don't pay me back for that money
but spend it on helping people who are worse than you
10 ways to deal with fraud and money loss
1. If you are patient wait until they return
2. If you don't have patience call them often
and press them The more urgent the situation is
the more likely it will be to do so
3. You give it up to them Then you feel more comfortable
with the idea of helping the needy
4. You sue them if you are full of law-abiding spirit
However when the amount is very small
it can create a rather embarrassing situation
5. You sign a contract with a money-hunting firm
However it is not certain how high the success rate will be
6. You run to the debtor and use violence
I understand how you want to beat them
And kill them but it's only revenge
7. You swear to them with phone calls
or text messages and never look back
This is also verbal retaliation
8. You make their real names public on the Internet
to prevent another victim from happening
You have chosen a social complaint
Instead of a legal complaint and this stands out
from your strong law-abiding spirit
9. You think it's an investment fiasco
And you blame your ignorance
That is the behavior of a self-replicating human
The more you do it the more you prevent
the same mistake from happening again
10. If your view of the world is Buddhist
you think the reason why it happened is because
you had a lot of sins committed in the past
Let’s not lend money to someone
who has no ability or will to repay it
if not you regret it later
Of course helping the needy is a beautiful thing
but it is a foolish idea to expect that
you lend money to them and you can get it back